Birth InSight


“When my daughter was three, she asked me what the difference was between a midwife and a doula.
I replied, “The midwife catches the baby and the doula holds the mama’s hand.”
In all her three year old wisdom she replied, “ Oh, so the mama won’t be afraid.” -Kyle Maclean

What is a Doula?

The word Doula means Servant in Greek.  That is the key role of a doula; however, serving a mother in labor comes in many different forms. Doulas have been around for many years in the form of mothers, aunts, sisters and even friends.  It wasn’t until the past couple decades that a formal education as a doula became available.  The word doula in present tense refers to a woman experienced in childbirth who provides continuous physical, emotional, and informational support to the mother before, during, and after childbirth.

What is a doula’s training?

There are many different ways to become a certified doula.  We choose to get our certification through Charis. for a number of reasons.  First, we wanted to become certified in both doula services AND childbirth education.  Second, the curriculum, when compared to others, was the most strenuous in the requirements (this specific education is the first half in midwifery training on becoming a Certified Practicing Midwife.)  We were required to read 13 books, complete 4 projects, attend 2 workshops, write 3 essays and 1 research paper.  We attended 2 births WITH a senior doula and several AS the senior doula.  We audited a childbirth education series and then taught one (while being evaluated.)  We had bi-monthly coaching appointments which held us accountable for learning the material.  Our curriculum covered anatomy, physiology, labor, birth, nutrition, obstetrical procedures/tests, emotional health, postpartum care, newborn, breastfeeding and teaching skills. In these coaching appointments we had invaluable conversations (with an experienced  woman who has attended over 250 births.)  In the conclusion of our 15 months of study we passed an extensive 3 hour exam.  The third reason we choose Charis, and perhaps most important, we wanted a certification program that acknowledges God’s perfect design for pregnancy, labor, and birth.

Do I want a doula?

There are many advantages in having a doula present at your birth.  A doula while caring, is also objective.  She knows your labor desires, prior to labor, and will encourage you through every stage of labor .  A doula always comes to your labor ready to serve and protect you.  She is not hired by the hospital, therefore her concern is you (however she should have a good relationship with the staff.)  She is an accessible resource, you do not have to remember everything you have read about labor or all of the information from your childbirth class. She is able to answer questions concerning your labors progress and give unemotional, informed options if you are presented with choices during labor.  Birth InSight doulas have experienced labor and can look you in the eyes and  know where you are.  A good doula sets the room (with tricks in her bag) to allow you to feel safe and free to find your labor rhythm.  Her constant presence reminds you that labor is a natural process that you have been designed (and are able) to do.  You will remember your labor day for the rest of your life.  Women who hire doulas know that they have done everything they can to set them up to ensure this memory is one they will treasure.  Additionally, doulas attending labors have reduced the duration of labor (up to 50%), reduced the c-section rate (up to 10% difference), reduced epidural or other painkiller use, reduced the use of forceps and vacuum extraction, reduce episiotomies, reduce perineal tears, reduce the instance of post-partum depression.  Mothers who hire doulas have fewer complications with breastfeeding and breastfeed longer.

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Absolutely not!  It is the doula’s job to enhance the relationship of the husband and wife throughout the labor. She does this by providing guidance and making suggestions.  Fathers report feeling more relaxed during the labor because of the doula’s constant support. He is able to be apart of the experience rather than shouldering the weight of the experience.  With a doula, dads primary concern is to nurture and protect his family.  The laboring mother will have both loving care and support, paired with the expertise and guidance, she deserves at this blessed event.

“I can never thank you enough for being with me yesterday.  I was so thankful for you in every way.  Thank you for all your kind words of encouragement and helpful suggestions!” -T.F.

“Having you with me during labor was like having a really knowledgeable sister to help me along through the whole experience.  You are warm and friendly and had a great rapport with the hospital staff.  I knew I could call you for guidance as soon as I started feeling labor pains.  Knowing that you would be readily available was extremely reassuring and helped to relieve much of my anxiety, since this was my first baby.” -K.H.

‘When you arrived the contractions were quite strong and I wasn’t sure I was going to make it, but you were able to redirect my thoughts and help us through the rough spots.  Thank you!  I am so glad you were there to help my husband and I bring our baby into this world.” -K.B.


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